Imagine if you will, coming home after work to find your lover in a cop costume, you are under arrest, and the hand cuffs go click. Of course you will need to beg for your release. The officer may be kind, may not. But you are at the absolute mercy of the officer. No, your not in the twilight zone, your in the sex zone!

Every year in October we get the chance to throw on a costume and enter a fantasy world. We get to pretend to be someone, or something else, other than what we are. This is a lot of fun. Many of us will get to partake of a fantasy world, and, if our costumes are good enough, we get attention from our fellow fantasy frolicers.

We all have fond childhood memories of dressing up and going trick or treating. Especially as a teen ager when I felt i had outgrown the trick or treating and graduated to prank player. Costumes were still a big part of that. Dawning a mask and being able to run a muck scaring younger kids, and girls. Being able to commit my socially degrading acts in complete anonymity was exhilarating. And now, as an adult, we go to Halloween parties or bar room costume contest. I particularly like the sexy costumes. All the girls wearing skimpy seductive costumes. Man oh man, it doesn't just turn my head it gives me whiplash. The point I am trying to make is that dressing up in a costume and being something other than who we are is a lot of fun. So, why do we only do it on Halloween?

We can have fun dressing up and role playing year round. Maybe not in public, unless you are part of a swingers club, or one of those "striper gram services". If I was a part of a swingers club, I think a costume night would be very exciting. That's another whole subject. I'm referring more to the one on one encounters we have with a significant other.

Maybe you come home and find your lady has transformed into a sexy senorita. "Sorry, no speak english". Or maybe a beautiful geisha girl, a cute school girl, a raunchy honky tonk gal, the possibilities or endless. The fact is, it will add a whole new exciting dimension to your love making. Like making love to someone new every time.

You and your lover can explore a fantasy world limited only by your imaginations. The role playing alone can be a healthy avenue to live out your fantasies, and costumes are a vessel to achieve just that. So, take advantage of this Halloween holiday, and role play. If you find it as exciting as I believe you will, maybe, just maybe, you will see the value of costumes and role playing year round. Opening a whole new world to you and your lover.